"Hi Kevin

I didn't assume to know who your posts refer to, I was just trying to be helpful. As your friend, it concerns me that you should have these conflicts, because feeling so negatively about someone is not good for your own peace of mind. My comments are meant to be general and I offer the same advice whether or not I know the antagonist, (who I still think must be a guy!). If your previous conflicts with people i know can be sorted out, perhaps this one can be too. While I understand your need for an outlet, bear in mind that what we say in public can have repurcussions.
Arjie"

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Arjie,
The very fact that you took the time & trouble to read the posts, contemplate on your replies, and post them does show your level of concern as a friend and I appreciate it. Very few people would do such a thing, some might even shrug it off, or even worst, take it to heart and bear a grudge.

I feel like explaining more about the posts, but I think I shall leave it as that unless you ask me in person, whereby I'd be more than happy to tell you....yes...I am a troubled individual with issues, and I do wish that all conflicts can be as easily sorted out as before. But not everyone has that kind of diplomacy or openness to discuss things...(this includes me) And yes, I do realise that I have to be ready to accept the consequences of what is published for public view....I had not had this problem before because this blog wasn't read by that many people. (I used it to update my friends in Malaysia whereby they'd ask me about my rants, etc) I think the solution to this, because I appreciate your comments, is to start a seperate, private blog for myself...or maybe until people start to lose interest in this blog. I had really hoped it wouldn't come to this as I thought this blog should reflect a timeline of my life..e.g. 30 or 50 years from now, I could read it and see where I was happy/annoyed/disgusted/moody/stupid/irrational/sensitive/mad/hyper/.... and perhaps see the change in me.

PS: Stop guessing the gender of the person/persons/animal/plant(ok this last one makes no sense, I'm back to my stupid self).